Home Sweet Not So Clean

I have such mixed emotions about my house....my husband and I have been married almost 14 years and have lived in different places. Not geographically, just houses. Long story short, we knew one day we wanted to build a house of our own and continually worked toward that goal. Well, 4 years ago we began our journey. And it was actually a pleasant journey. We were just talking the other day that our house building experience was quite enjoyable; no big fall outs or problems. Anyway, fast forward to today, 4 years later, 2 jobs, 2 kids, 4 animals....I cannot keep up with this housework! And I fight myself about this all the time! I have two kids that are of age to actually help and sometimes it's just easier to do things myself (which means the bare minimum gets done). And, I actually have a husband who is VERY helpful! Just having a bum day I guess. I got up this morning to come to work and looked around and literally just felt defeated. Part of it is that I want to be home. Why can't those work from home jobs not be a scam? I will have to start searching for something to do besides work these 10 hour days somewhere else! I'll get on that right after I clean the bathrooms!:)